Letters For Lucas – Wonders, Mishaps, Blunders and Joy.. commentary on my life as a mom in the form of letters to my son

Back To Basics

Posted on March 28, 2013 Written by Tonya

From the time I was 17 on, I only saw my parents 3-4 times a year. They worked and lived overseas while I was in boarding school and then college in Arizona. Our time together was precious and never long enough. I believe they made up for the … [Continue reading]

Dear Principessa

Posted on March 27, 2013 Written by Tonya

Elena is one busy mama, she tells the story of making every moment matter by living, doing and growing as a freelance writer, social good advocate, runner, cancer survivor, and dream chaser. Elena believes in empowering others as founder of … [Continue reading]

The Cursor

Posted on March 24, 2013 Written by Tonya

The cursor waits patiently. There is a stark white canvas in front of me, mine for the taking. The glow of the screen is unforgiving as it lights up my face. The gentle hum of the laptop is the only audible sound apart from my … [Continue reading]

My Miracle

Posted on March 24, 2013 Written by Tonya

I've lost my temper. I've lost my way. I've lost jobs. I've missed deadlines. I've missed flights. I've missed opportunities. I've broken the law. I've broken promises. I've broken hearts. I've overindulged. I've under delivered. I've … [Continue reading]

Moving By The Numbers

Posted on March 14, 2013 Written by Tonya

1 yard sale. 2 broken finger nails. 2 trips to Home Depot. 2 guys and a truck. 3rd floor. No elevator! 4 rolls of tape. 5 days without TV or Internet (thank God for free WiFi). 5 nights of take out. 5 trips to … [Continue reading]

Dear Daily Life

Posted on March 12, 2013 Written by Tonya

Alex of Late Enough is my guest today and her letter is perfect for my life right now! I literally feel like a chicken with it's head cut off, trying to juggle a move, work deadlines, fertility treatments, Lucas and his well being, my marriage and my … [Continue reading]

Name That Kindergartner – Update

Posted on March 10, 2013 Written by Tonya

Update: The winner of the $300 Amazon gift card is Amy Pike. Second and third place go to Renee and Julie. Here’s my then and now. To see the answers for everyone else, look below. I remember 5 things about kindergarten: 1. Riding the … [Continue reading]

Listen To Your Mother

Posted on March 8, 2013 Written by Tonya

I've been sharing my words on Letters For Lucas for four years this coming August. I started freelancing over a year ago. I have had my own column since January. And yet, I'm still finding my voice and navigating through my emotions to … [Continue reading]

Playing Hookie

Posted on March 6, 2013 Written by Tonya

It's permanently on my calendar. It's always the first Wednesday of every month. Same time. Same place. Sad stories. Insatiable longing. Todd was out of town. The sitter was booked. But I didn't want to go. Not … [Continue reading]

Yes, I Blog. Yes, It’s A Real Job

Posted on February 27, 2013 Written by Tonya

Nicole of Moments That Define Life is my guest today. Nicole is a busy mommy to three little girls, works to support several blogs and is also the brains (and beauty) behind #ShareYourLife, a weekly meme where readers linkup posts sharing glimpses of … [Continue reading]

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