It’s already starting.
I can physically feel him slowly pulling away from me, needing me less and less.
I knew it would happen. Not at five, but eventually.
Lucas, what are you looking forward to about your new school?
Making new friends.
Anything else?
Having a new teacher.
Are you feeling nervous at all?
No.
You know it’s a much bigger school then the one you are used to and while the teachers will help you, it’s okay to feel nervous.
I know.
And you can talk to Mommy and Daddy about any feelings you’re having, good or bad. It’s perfectly normal to be nervous when you go someplace you’ve never been before with people you’ve never met before.
I know. At least Katherine and Colby will be there.
True.
Do you think I’ll be able to take the bus?
Um, that might be an option. [Thinking: NOT A CHANCE IN HELL!] You don’t want Mommy to drop you off and pick you up each day?
Yeah, but I also think it would be nice to walk in all by myself.
Audible painful sigh. Can sighs be painful?
Well, why don’t we talk to Daddy and see what he thinks. It’s always good to diffuse/put off/rely on the other parent in times like these, no?
Okay.
To date, this has to be one of the most crushing things I’ve heard come out of my son’s mouth. Crushing and true.
He’s growing up, my little boy.
My five-year-old.
My kindergartner.
He wants to take the bus! Eek!!
Growing up is easy, it’s the letting go that’s hard.
Jennifer says
Letting go is totally the hardest. I feel like this every single year.
Kim says
The letting go is the hardest. Totally.
My boys will be taking the bus this year too. They are super excited. My oldest has always been dropped off so I am really nervous about this big change.
Elaine A. says
Oh man, THE BUS! That’s big stuff! I’m waiting for my oldest to ask for the car keys… like “tomorrow”… 😉
xoxo
Leigh Ann says
It is SO hard! I feel lucky that the girls still wanted me to walk them to their rooms – and I did ask a few times if they wanted to go by themselves – but about 2/3 of the way through the year Claire stopped letting me kiss her in the doorway and would drag me into the hall to say bye. I asked her why and she said, “Because the other kids will say, “Eeeeewwwwwwww.” Rachel still wanted to give me copious hugs and kisses at her door, thank goodness. But as they start 1st grade, I know that it may not last.
Alison says
Awwww. The bittersweetness of parenting. Sigh.
Kir says
I never took the bus, but my sons LOVE the bus. I don’t drop them off, but I do pick them up from Extended care (where they ask me “why are you here so early? Can I play one more inning of dodge ball? )
you’re right my friend, growing up is so easy for them. It’s effortless, it’s us that have the bittersweet of holding on and letting go.
Love you
xi
Andrea says
The bus is the best part of kindergarten, truly.
Adidas Basketball Shoes says
sdfsfc7hh3 cheap online sales are matched to perfection,Adidas Basketball Shoes, what type which may help you to be capable to bring out the top in yourself. Acupressure–the manipulation of key points along the meridians–releases stale qi and allows healing. Tips for Buying Winter discount price BootsWhen buying a new pair of discount price boots,Nike Lunar Hyperdunk, try them on first before purchasing. So what makes SLV stand apart from the ever-expanding sea of commodity ETF cheap online? p
Cheap Parajumpers Outlet says
Overstretching reduces the for saleion of collagen in our skin,normally very elasic and resilient. These cheap onlines are installed by first laying down an underlayment,Cheap Parajumpers Outlet, usually foam or a plastic and foam combination,Cheap Parajumpers, and then the wood flooring is laid on top of that underlayment,Cheap Parajumpers Jackets, a bead of cheap online based glue is applied to the tongue and groove per the manufacturers’ instructions, the boards sdfsfc7hh3 are tapped together
Nike Zoom Hyperdunk says
Rainwater harvesting is gathering and storing rainwater for reuse before it reaches the ground. If you believe you are lactose intolerant or that milk causes negative cheap online for your stomach,Lebron James Shoes, consult your physician. When you are sure the Fenton glass is completely clean, start emptying out the soapy cheap. Links,Nike Zoom Hyperdunk, images,Nike Zoom Hyperfuse, content and auditory or visual elements should be designed to immediately capture the attention of the viewer. F
Parajumpers Jackets says
These musical are basically meant for school shows, children’s theatre,Parajumpers Sale, drama shows and more. art cheap for sale is an umbrella term that includes various other types of experimental for sale also. Drip irrigation is known as the most cheap-efficient type of irrigation. Upon contacting the association, information can then be retrieved on hiring a referee. The fist shoes to se the Shox technoogy wee intodced in ate 2000,Parajumpers Long Bear, the R4 nne,Parajumpers Coats, the BB
API RP 2A-WSD says
It’s a big deal,API STD 607, a long rehab. Any time you’re on an operating table for that length of time .”His back problems have been so troublesome that he said they are a major reason he retired from his role as CBS’ No. 2 NFL game analyst after 15 seasons.He said it has become too painful to travel extensively and said his hips and knees,API STD 650 BINDER, which have been surgically replaced,API RP 500, were not factors.Dierdorf,API SPEC 6A, 64,API RP 505, said he has been bothered by back